Why can't I Join Games?? ;w;

Basically, this is what happens when I try to join a game: 1) USBX does the purple loading icon thing 2) Godot logo apears 3) "Connecting..." screen appears After that, its just stuck there O_O also smth I noticed is that it appears to lag my other windows alot :< Is there a way to make the game actually load? Im on Windows 10 and on a kinda old computer btw ;w;